In what situations is abuse likely to occur?
When there is an imbalance of power
Why does it happen?
Thousands of people live in an abusive situation, so you need to understand why some people abuse others, and to realise that the abuse is not your fault. Sometimes abusers manipulate those they're abusing by telling them they did something wrong or "asked for it" in some way. But that's not true.
There is no single reason why people abuse others. But some factors seem to make it more likely that someone may lose control.
Sometimes, growing up in an abusive family can lead a person to think that example is a good way to discipline others. Others become abusive because they're not able to manage their feelings properly.
For example, someone who is unable to control anger or can't cope with stressful personal situations (like the loss of a job or marriage problems) may lash out at others inappropriately. Also, drinking too much and/or drug use can make it difficult for some people to control their actions.
Certain types of personality disorders or mental illness might also interfere with someone's ability to relate to others in healthy ways or cause problems with aggression or self-control. Of course, not everyone with a personality disorder or mental illness becomes abusive.
How common is it?
44% of victims are under 18 years old
60% of sexual assaults are not reported to the police
97% of rapists will never spend a day in jail
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